What should I do if my family wants me to abort and I am almost 24 weeks pregnant?

Question

I am currently almost 24 weeks pregnant and feeling scared because my family wants me to have an abortion. However, I don't want to go through with it. What should I do in this situation?

Answer 1

How old are you?

But what do you want? You don't have to do it for your family or what the want you to do. If you want to keep your child and love your child before and after it's born than keep it.

I hope you find the answer you are looking for. 

Comments

Keep that baby...its very risky at this point..they are not the ones risking their life.its your baby ,your life.

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Thanks you so much for this advice it really helped me

Answer 2

Dont abort, if they havent accepted the pregnancy by now then you dont need them hun, theyre not much of a family then

Answer 3

Then don't abort.

Answer 4

The decision is totally up to you. This is my fourth and I was told to abort or put up for adoption. I've made my decision and I'm keeping my baby. If you don't want to then don't. Your body,your baby, your decision best of luck to you 

Answer 5

Why does your family want to abort? It is a gift of Allah. Many women can't be mother in the world. They are very unhappy and their life is not fulfilled. pls don't reject the gift of Allah. What will you do if Allah don't give you this gift again in future? Pls don't abort it at any reason. Only 15/16 weeks left to be a mother. Pls don't miss this heavenly experience at any cost. It is a great sin (abortion). Pls don't  do this.

Comments

K if your in Canada and you plan to keep the child thes the pregnancy care place they will sort you out. Free prenatal classes guidelines link u to doctor or midwife.  Free baby stuff dippers clothes second hand but best condition. Honestly when you get pregnant it's not anymore about family or friends it's you and your baby. It might be a disappointment in disguise of a blessing to them . They wont understand but they will have to accept it. If they cant like I said PCC will sort you out housing and baby stuff you need and you will be a confident mom to start a new journey.  The did is already done a child is on the way you need to build a mindset of a mommer bear serve and protect .the rest will fall in line if they dont you need to be able to walk through a door a lone for you and your baby then return after you've figured yourself out to answer any questions thrown at you but at 24wks gal. Momma bear up Asap for the baby's case

Answer 6

It's too late to terminate pregnancy at this point. It's not up to your family to make you abort the baby.  The decision was yours, but it's too late for that anyways. Abortion this late is very dangerous and could cause permanent infertility for you. You should carry to term and then either keep the child or allow someone to adopt the baby into a better family than yours.

Answer 7

A child is a blessing from God, you don't know maybe that's your only child or that child will bring so much joy to your life, as a Christian I strongly condemn abortion, keep that child, if u will be unable to support the child after birth, have the child adopted.

Answer 8

Get rid of your family. That is insane. 

Answer 9

Thats a death trap, a friend of mine did an abortion once. An she has not been able to get pregnant from then. 

Answer 10

This is your child GOD as giving u this baby for a reason so u dot hv to listen to them GOD will make a way where it seem to be noway just trust him he will come through for u

Answer 11

If you don't want to abort,then dont. It's your decision. Dont do things to make others happy. Its about you and your baby now. Follow your heart.

If you follow your heart thing will fall into place. Good luck with everything. 

Answer 12

That is YOUR baby not theirs. I was told I should have an abortion with my first son and I can't imagine my life without him. I'm almost 3 months with my fourth baby and can't imagine terminating my pregnancy. I wouldn't do it simply because I'm pro life but I also know that this baby is a Blessing from GOD.  I'm not gonna throw that away. I think the right decision would be to carry to term and after delivery make whatever decision you think would be best for your baby and yourself.

Answer 13

Dont abort at 24 weeks. My daughter was born at 23 weeks she is almost 7 years old. 

Answer 14

It's your baby your body your life your decision not theirs. Give baby a fair chance at life.

Answer 15

Darling u do not have to do anything u don't want to! Its your baby, it is not your families choice it is yours. And 24  weeks your baby is a little human being thats so wrong they'd even ask u to do that

Answer 16

Do not abort. Unless it is a medical emergency for you and you have to, abortion at this stage is much more dangerous for you. It's important to listen to yourself and if you want the baby, that is what matters most. Take good care of yourself and the baby. 

Answer 17

Hi sis 

Don't do it . So many are suffering without baby God gave you a beautiful baby for you Don't listen to others you should stand and fight for your baby God bless you ❤ 

Answer 18

Please don't abort, it's highly risky, when you are 3 months down you can do abortion, its less risky but at the point you can loose your life and your child, s life as well.. So be strong, you have come so far just to give up now! hello No.. 

Answer 19

Your baby will be the BEST little family you could ever ask for. I promise. I got pregnant at 18 for my first and when I told my family they said. "Well, you gonna take care and get rid of it?" No. I'm gonna take care of him and love him. Hes almost 5 now and he saved me. 

Please please your child is you!

Answer 20

If you don't want to then don't. No one should make such decisions for you. Tell then just that. GOODLUCK!