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I became pregnant while using contraception and am currently unmarried, unfinished with college, and uncertain about my future plans. Initially, I was leaning towards putting the baby up for adoption, but recently I've started to feel like I might regret letting go of this precious opportunity. While being a parent is a significant responsibility, deep down, I believe it could be worth it. My boyfriend is supportive of either decision. Can you provide guidance?
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Deciding whether to put your baby up for adoption or embrace parenthood is a deeply personal choice that only you can make. It's important to carefully consider all aspects before making a decision.

If you are unsure about your ability to provide the necessary care and support for your child due to factors such as being unmarried, incomplete education, or uncertainty about your future plans, adoption can be a loving option. Adoption allows you to give your baby the opportunity to grow up in a stable and nurturing environment with parents who are ready and able to provide for their needs.

However, it's also crucial to acknowledge the emotional impact of placing your child for adoption. You may experience feelings of grief or loss after separation from your baby. It's essential to seek counseling or support groups during this process.

On the other hand, if you feel in your heart that embracing parenthood is the right path for you, it can be an incredibly rewarding experience despite its challenges. Parenthood requires dedication, sacrifice, and commitment but can bring immense joy and fulfillment.

Consider discussing your options with professionals such as counselors specializing in unplanned pregnancies or adoption agencies who can provide unbiased information and support throughout this journey.

Ultimately, remember that there is no right or wrong decision here; what matters most is choosing what feels best for both yourself and your baby's well-being. Take time to reflect, seek guidance, and trust your instincts as you navigate this life-changing decision.

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I'd love a baby and cant have any so you should think stong and hard about this cause once gone you cant get it back a not that I am judging you as I dare not know your situation I think you should take a long lokk at this and think very hard from a lonely married woman who would love too be in you postion

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by anonymous
Dear, I would reccommend you to go to a psicologist if you can. A psicologist with whom you feel safe and that can help you understad yourself and help you pass through this moment.

There is not a right and a wrong decision...it is just your decision, you just have to find out which one is. A good psicologist can help you also for the "after-decision", whatever it is. Hug
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It is your choice hun hope you make the right choice as I know what it's like as I was adopted at 4 and half and my real mam and dad weren't aloud to know we're I was and they weren't aloud to see me or find me till I was 18 and I don't want you to have to go through them same thing 
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It is your choice in the end however, if you have a lot of support from family and friends who can help you through it, I personally wouldn't give your baby up for adoption. 
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I was pregant at 15 and had her a 16.. Whasnt married or with the dad, wasn't done highschool, or had my own place. I ended up having her and eveything happen after she was my motivation to finish school and i went to colleve for 4 diplomas. Woudnt change anything . she made me realize what I  wanted in life xoxo im just saying once you have her in your arm youll never wanna let her go xoxo you can always keep the baby for a while and figure things out after wards so u can make a dicision youll never regret :) but anyways youll have support if u do or dont its your life make the best of it ❤
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Beautiful inspiration
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Think about it this way, 5 years from now you may regret giving up your baby, but if you keep him or her you'll NEVER regret it....

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